Welcome to Grateful Caregiver

 Hello Caregivers ❤️

Welcome to my blog, Grateful Caregiver. You might be wondering why I chose the name "Grateful Caregiver." It reflects my intentional focus on highlighting the positive and praiseworthy aspects of my caregiving journey rather than dwelling on the negatives. Through it all, I am learning to trust God. Some may call me optimistic, as I tend to see the glass as half full rather than half empty.

Allow me to introduce myself. My name is Theresa Hedgeman I have been married 29 years with 3 adult daughters and 5 grandchildren. I live in Maryland and I work and have a small business. I am also a caregiver to my 76 year old mother who was diagnosed with breast cancer in February 2022. I have been my mother’s primary caregiver since her diagnosis, however I do have a wonderful support system in my family. I couldn’t do it without their support.

I've chosen to launch a blog to document my journey, offer support, and advocate for fellow caregivers. I'll be sharing my personal experiences and hope to inspire other caregivers to share their stories too. Interested? Feel free to leave a comment below.I find the caregiver journey to be challenging yet fulfilling. It resembles a path with both highs and lows. Without the valleys, the hills wouldn't be as noticeable. Stay tuned for more updates.





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  1. AnonymousSeptember 15, 2024 at 11:13 AM

    I feel myself growing spiritually through my interactions with you.

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